Wednesday, February 3, 2010

ALWAYS THINK YOU ARE SPECIAL ( from my pen )




ALWAYS THINK YOU ARE SPECIAL

Most people think that self respect comes by how we look from the outside, what we wear and how well we follow every new mode.
But actually self respect comes from our ability to see ourselves from deep inside. And from my point of view I think we achieve that by doing the following:-
• Never give ourselves the impression that we are not beautiful or handsome, but on the contrary we should always think that everyone of us is special in some way.
• We should never feel guilty when we see the bodies of the fashion models or the famous actors.
• We should also never run after fashion magazines and newest fashion, wear anything that’s not suitable just because it’s the fashion. We should always try to create our own fashion that suites us and makes us different from others.
• Remember that the strength of our personality comes from the strength of our thinking. Always look at ourselves in a positive way so others will see us in the same way.
• We should try working on and improving the positive side in ourselves coz people always know who and what we really are the minute they see us.
• If we are the nagging selfish and all the other negative person , we should try working hard on changing that hardly , because these things make our life miserable and all emptiness and we won’t be able to socialize with others .
• We shouldn’t let those bad habits control our life; we should free ourselves from them so we can be able to reach horizons we never dreamt of reaching.
• We should always celebrate with ourselves on every achievement we accomplish in life, and try enjoying what we already have, and never be sorry on what we don’t have.
• We should be happy with our beauty and show it and not get upset from how you look.
• If there is anything we would like to do that will make us happy we should just go ahead and do it without hesitation.
As you see self respect is an internal feeling so how we feel about ourselves determines our self respect , only we can give ourselves that feeling .
All we have to do is sit with our self for a moment think about our self and what we want to do for the rest of our lives.